FIREFLY BLOG

The new year has a reputation. A f resh page. A clean slate. A symbolic reset button we’re collectively encouraged to press. And while we believe that any day is a good day to make a healthy change, there’s something powerful about leaning into a moment society already recognizes as a beginning. So, if January—or any “new year” moment in your life—feels like an invitation, you’re allowed to accept it. What we want to gently challenge is the idea that reinvention has to look d

The holidays are often portrayed as a time of joy, love, and togetherness. But for many, the season brings complexities that can feel overwhelming. Family gatherings may not always be filled with warmth and understanding. For survivors of trauma, the holidays can be especially challenging when the people around the table include those who have caused harm, those who didn’t believe, or those who simply don’t know. At Firefly Therapy, we understand the weight of these situation

November arrives with a soft reminder to pause and give thanks.Gratitude fills the air—woven into dinner tables, handwritten notes, and social media reflections. We name our blessings: family, friends, community, health, the small joys that make up our days. But there’s one name that rarely makes the list—our own. While this season encourages appreciation for those who’ve shaped and supported us, we often overlook the one person who has carried us through it all: ourselves. S

Understanding the Link Between Childhood Sexual Abuse and Infertility For many women, the idea of motherhood carries more than hope — it carries identity. It’s a quiet expectation woven into conversations, media, even casual small talk. For those who dream of having a child, fertility treatment can feel like an emotional marathon: full of blood draws, ultrasounds, waiting rooms, and whispered prayers for good news. You stay positive. You follow every instruction. You tell you

In our last blog, we explored how society—and trauma itself—often trains us to be quiet. To keep our heads down. To swallow words that...

From the time many of us were little girls, we were taught to be “polite.” To share, to smile, to be agreeable. To not rock the boat. For...

From the time many of us were little girls, we were taught—often subtly, sometimes directly—that our value lay in being agreeable. “Be...

In New York City, the rhythm of life is fast and unforgiving. We push ourselves through long workdays, late nights, and crowded commutes,...

When we hear the word exercise , it often conjures up a very specific image: high-energy classes, pricey gym memberships, and rigid...

May marks Mental Health Awareness Month, a time when we’re invited — and encouraged — to check in with ourselves and one another, to...